The degree to which you pace the behaviors of others is the degree to which you’ll get into rapport with them. There are a number of behaviors that gifted communicators tended to match systematically, including posture and gestures, voice tone, tempo and volume, the words that people use to describe sensory experience and the rate at which another breathes.

In fact, all of us tend to pace the behavior of others that we’re comfortable with when we are really connected with them. By bringing this phenomenon into conscious awareness and consciously matching the behaviors and experience of others, you can gain rapport with even those who have been difficult to deal with in the past or those who tend to be very different from you…

In a coaching practice (as well as any other kind of people helping practice) it can be helpful to have certain ethical questions already answered in your own mind before they ever come up in your reality.

It is a rainy cloudy afternoon in Tokyo, Japan. The view from the 35th floor window of Tim Hallbom’s apartment is stunning, even with the dark grey skies.

To facilitate communicating with others, giving feedback, and really connecting with the using space, body posture and gestures.

I have been a professional coach since 1996. In the more recent years, I have done a lot of business coaching with beginner coaches, who are in the process of trying to start a private practice.

I would like to share with you a useful set of NLP patterns that I have assembled over time. These patterns are easy to do, and they almost always work to increase a person's flexibility and unconscious choices within a specific problem context.

Several years ago, Tim and I met with a group of 20 NLP Master Practitioners with the intention of exploring the psycho-spiritual motifs that exist in the consciousness of people and the systems in which they live.

When was the last time you saw someone whose name you should have remembered? They knew you and called you by name.